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Transform Your Marriage // From Apathy To Passion

Tired of feeling unwanted or undesired? Fed up with feeling like roommates? This empowering and enjoyable online “crash course” can jump-start a stalled marriage before it breaks down altogether. Start listening now, from any device.

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Apathy has become an epidemic in modern marriage

It chips away at a marriage, bit by bit, year after year. It’s a root cause of many relationship problems, from arguing and affairs to midlife crises and grey divorce. This proactive, positive and highly usable program has the insights and strategies you’ve been looking for to add a little color to your fading romance.

Listen from your mobile or tablet, listen in your car or at your desktop. Whatever you choose, this course’s private “power sessions” can help you prompt a big, positive change in your marriage. You’ll know it’s the right resource for you if any of the below qualities have you nodding your head in frustration:

  • An increasingly “chilly” vibe in the marriage
  • A loss of emotional connection
  • A decrease in physical intimacy and desire
  • Feeling unloved by your spouse
  • The presence (or risk) of infidelity in the marriage
  • Leading separate lives
  • A lack of fun or laughter in the marriage
  • Too much “screen time” on devices
  • An overly predictable routine or lifestyle
  • Feeling bored with the marriage or each other
  • Worrying your husband or wife is going to leave you
  • Loss of personal identity or love of life

This course can change the course of your marriage

After years spent helping people move past their problems in my capacity as a marriage author and conflict specialist, I am confident in my method and this indispensable, plain-spoken online program – it provides instant advice on any device (mobile, tablet, computer) so you can listen at your own pace and convenience, and in your preferred space. You’ll find the audio introduction below. You’ll also find testimonials from real people here.

Marriage help doesn’t have to be complicated, time-consuming or conflict-ridden. With my approach, you can start improving matters quickly and purposefully – yes, even on your own.

I had a front row seat to a dying marriage. We didn’t openly fight – oh no, that would’ve been too much work! I bought relationship books. Sex toys. I tried other programs. I was ready to give up. Can’t blame me, a person can only take so much rejection and you get sick of being the only one who is trying. I have a girlfriend who used another one of your courses and recommended your service. I suppose I owe both of you. Very happy now and very thankful for your wonderful and unique course. – Mary Ann, Toledo, OH

When you want to be wanted

Maybe you’ve done everything you can to connect with your spouse in a fun or meaningful way. You might be desperate to hear a warm, loving tone in your spouse’s voice. You might be desperate to see a sign of life!  A sign that they still care and don’t take you for granted. A sign that that they cherish the years they’ve shared with you and are looking forward to many more.

If you long to feel “wanted” in your marriage, don’t just live with it – try something different. Because you deserve better. You both deserve better.  Let’s put some color back into your fading marriage.

You can lead the way for both of you

This program provides usable insights and innovative strategies to help you make a tangible, noticeable difference in your marriage – a difference that your spouse will see and feel, and that can prompt a real change in their feelings, attitude and behavior toward you. 

The goal is to peel back that layer of apathy that has settled on your marriage – to rip it off, if need be! – so that you can fall in love all over again.  And yes, it’s better the second time around!

What an uplifting, refreshing and USABLE course. I dove right into it. I locked myself in my office, got into the zone with the video in the background and followed every word in the workbook. I thought, “I’m just going to do every single thing, without thinking about it or making excuses.” I don’t have to tell you how it worked. But it did. Brilliant stuff. 🙂 – Elizabeth, Fairmont, MN

Listen to the audio intro for Transform Your Marriage // From Apathy to Passion

This online course is only available for purchase in the USA, Canada and Australia.

$120 USD includes:

Intensive Audio Sessions

Take your sessions with me on-the-go (in the car, as you exercise) as you listen from your mobile phone to over 2 hours of must-know information, insights and strategies. This content is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with me - you'll get the same benefit, at a fraction of the cost and within hours instead of weeks.

Audio Sessions + Video

The same 2+ hours of must-know audio content, presented with calming background video so you can relax and work your way through the program supplement (optional). Take time for yourself and do this at your desktop during your lunch break, while relaxing at a coffee house with your laptop or while resting on your couch with your tablet.

Program Supplement

This printable, practical resource is a workbook, review tool and guide all in one. It helps you apply the insights and strategies from your audio sessions to your specific situation in a straightforward way. It is modeled on the format, content and approach I use during office sessions when a client must decide how they will handle what is happening.

Ultimately, it’s up to you how you use this course. You can simply listen to the streaming core audio content or you can complement the experience with the video, program supplement, Q&A’s and other bonus content. Either way, there is no faster, easier or more affordable way to receive top-tier relationship help that targets your problem. 


Q&A’s – Quick Answers From Deb’s Desk; Sometimes, during my work, I get a question that should be shared with everyone (anonymously, of course). These are updated as new questions come in and are shared with you via the course.

Video (the ABC’s of Course Success), exercises and an e-book (30 Lifelines to Revive Your Marriage in One Month). Post-course self-assessment booklet and free access to any updates to the course that take place during your year of enrollment.

This online program is convenient and immediately usable – no troublesome or ongoing office visits. You can access it on any device (i.e. mobile, tablet, desktop). My goal is to give you the comprehensive content you need quickly and in a way that fits into your lifestyle. Marriage problems are hard enough! Getting help should be easy.

Why this program works so well...

This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your spouse. Why? Because in my professional experience, it is counterproductive to pressure or to keep asking an apathetic spouse to work on the marriage. After all, they’re apathetic so they probably won’t! It’s often more productive to prompt a change yourself and to surprise your spouse with that change. Chances are, your spouse will notice the difference and will make some positive changes of their own.

Don't spend another day drifting away from the person you love

Many marriage problems get worse, or lead to divorce, because people hesitate to get help, are too passive, or don’t know what to do when their spouse won’t participate. This online course is perfect for people who are looking for a more proactive, assertive way to deal with the challenges they are facing in their marriage.

We spent so many years working our asses off to get ahead and get these kids out the door and on their way. And then when we had the time and money to enjoy each other – nada. He sat on the couch and watched TV and I sat at the computer and lived on social media. It seemed like such a waste. I begged him to go for a walk, a bike ride, take a trip, take a class, say something. Nada. What I loved about this course was that it taught me how to spark a huge change in such a subtle way. He didn’t see it coming and that’s probably why it worked. Thanks Deb, from the great state of Texas. – Melissa, Frisco, TX

This online program is only available for purchase in the United States, Canada & Australia.