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Stop “Fighting” to Get Along // For Individuals & Couples

If your marriage is struggling with negativity, arguments, blame or unpleasant personality traits (among other things), stop living in misery. Start listening now, from any device, to this online “crash course.” It helps you become lovers, not fighters!

Does your marriage ever feel like a battle zone?

Maybe there are open hostilities or maybe it’s more of a cold war situation. Either way, this realistic and highly usable program has the insights and strategies you need to bring peace, harmony and happiness to your marriage. It can be especially valuable if you are trying to prevent or recover from a serious marriage problem, such as an affair, opposite-sex “friendship” or midlife crisis. It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information; however, this format allows me to do it in a matter of hours. These no-nonsense, private Marriage SOS sessions can help you prompt big, positive changes in your marriage. You’ll know it’s the right resource for you if any of the below (whether on your spouse’s part or your own!) seem all too familiar: 

  • Defensiveness or refusal to look at own behavior
  • An inability to communicate without arguing
  • Walking on eggshells
  • A lack of affection
  • Impatience
  • Emotional outbursts or oversensitivity
  • Short fuses
  • Negativity or constant criticism
  • Unflattering personality traits (i.e. narcissism)
  • Self-focus or self-interest

It’s time to have a warmer marriage

Stop “Fighting” to Get Along can help you tear down the entrenched behaviors that have been sucking the life and love out of your marriage, and rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship. One filled with affection, comfort and happy stability for you, your spouse and your family. The usable insights and practical strategies in this course can help you make it happen.

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You can lead the way for both of you

I designed this program to appeal to even the most defensive of people – its content and convenient, non-confrontational delivery can help challenging personality types remain open-minded and willing to look at themselves. In fact, this may be the only way some people can be reached. But even if your partner won’t participate, take heart. You have the power to create huge changes on your own. This online program can show you how to take the first steps toward a happier marriage and home life.

We went through counselling, coaching, therapy and a really, really creepy couples retreat. That’s how desperate we were to stop fighting and just feel a glimmer of love or hope again. I cried at the end of this program. Not because it was bad but because it left me thinking, “I am not going to let one more day go by fighting with this person that I love more than anything.” You were the ONLY person that showed me how to do that instead of just throwing irrelevant theories or vapid love quotes at me. – Kristen, Victoria, BC

Contents: 6+ hours of intensive and engaging core audio, plus multimedia supporting content (audio with calming video, three-part printable workbook, Marriage Lifelines, Q&A clips, etc.).  $320.00 USD 

Why this course works so well...

This online service effectively replaces thousands of dollars in private sessions with me. The program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: phone, tablet desktop. Take your sessions “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for one year and includes all updates and additions to the program during that time (no-cost re-enrollments are available upon request).

This engaging and highly usable program is versatile – you can take it together, as a couple, perhaps taking turns listening to it and working through the content. Alternatively, you can take it alone if your spouse isn’t ready or willing to participate. You can lead the way. Don’t stay stuck in misery or conflict! Move forward, even if you have to take those first steps alone. Chances are, your partner will notice the difference and will like it.

I could weep when I think of how many years we WASTED fighting about bullshit nothingness. This hit every single nail on its head. Bang. Bang. Bang. It made absolute and total sense from the first word to the last word. I really love the way you simplified what I’m sure are some very complicated strategies and showed us how to just slip them right into the marriage, like they’d always been there. Just beautiful. – Carter, Kodiak, AK

Don't wait any longer to save your marriage

Many marriage problems get worse, or lead to divorce, because people hesitate to get help, are too passive, or don’t know what to do when their spouse won’t participate. This online course is perfect for people who are looking for a more proactive, assertive way to deal with the challenges they are facing in their marriage.

You delivered some really ugly messages with equal parts cold truth and warmth. You took the gloves off but I knew you were fighting for us the whole time. – Arpita, London, ON