If you feel like there are three people in your marriage, you need to stop worrying, speculating and having pointless arguments about it.
Instead, start listening to this online “crash course.” Its intensive guidance is your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage.
Yes, you can "break the spell" your partner seems to be under
Are you worried about the friendship your partner has with another woman or man? Maybe it’s a new co-worker at the office or an old flame on social media. It could be anyone. Regardless, those red flags are waving. Your partner is telling you they’re “just friends,” but their secretive behavior and the way they protect this friendship has left you in a state of worry and hurt, feeling unheard and second-best in your own marriage. You’re tired of the drama and divided loyalties.
My empowering crash course can help you manage this ordeal from start to finish in a sensible, dignified and plain-spoken way. My goal is to help you motivate your spouse to end the “friendship” before it transitions into an affair or “love triangle.” You know that your spouse will not end this friendship on their own. This program can help you prompt a change.
It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information; however, this format allows me to do it in hours. These no-nonsense, private Marriage SOS streaming sessions deliver the usable insights and precise strategies that have worked for my other clients – no inconvenient office visits, no empty theories. Just must-know content.
Your spouse's behavior, decoded.
This one-of-a-kind program helps you understand and manage a spouse’s challenging behavior: denying or downplaying it, secrecy, illicit texting, defensiveness, acting confused about their feelings, saying you are “paranoid” etc. You will learn to handle things in such a way that your partner wants to limit or end the friendship and recommit exclusively to you. That sounds better than crying, begging or having the same pointless conversation again and again, doesn’t it?
An ounce of prevention
…is worth a pound of cure. Nowhere is that more true than problematic “friendships” within marriage. The fact is, the vast majority of full-scale emotional and physical affairs begin as “innocent” opposite-sex friendships that transition into intimate relationships. So be proactive.
Unfortunately, a partner who has this kind of “friendship” is unlikely to end it on their own. You may have to prompt a change. I’ll help you do that in the smartest way possible. You may feel your worst right now, but you can’t act it: this is the time to respond thoughtfully, not just emotionally.
Hear the course's audio introduction
Over three hours of intensive, engaging core audio that comprehensively targets this issue, plus a variety of multimedia supporting content (audio with calming video, printable material, Marriage Lifelines, What NOT To Do, Q&A clips, etc.).
** To put the cost of my Marriage SOS audio-based online program in context, please note that I charge $275 USD for a one-hour phone session during which, frankly, you do most of the talking and I try to present as much information as I can in the time we have left. In contrast, this course contains over three uninterrupted hours of non-stop, essential information – everything that, over my years in practice, I’ve found a person in your situation needs to know. Best of all, you can listen repeatedly when you need to hear something again…and again! It also contains very useful and unique supporting content that I simply cannot provide during a phone session.
To me, the course was like being sprung from jail. You broke me out of my victim role. – Adrian, NYC
Urgent, usable help to turn things around.
This online service effectively replaces thousands of dollars in private sessions with me. The program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: phone, tablet desktop. Take your sessions “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for one year and includes all updates and additions to the program during that time (no-cost re-enrollments are available upon request).
This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your partner. Why? Because in my professional experience, many married people who are having an inappropriate “friendship” tend to be unwilling to end it. A “couples” approach can be pointless or counterproductive; however, a “one spouse” approach can help a concerned spouse gain the insights and strategies they need to properly manage the situation. Don’t stay stuck! Move forward, even if you have to take those first steps alone.
As a practitioner, it frustrates me that spouses in your situation are getting advice that is either useless or works against them in the long-term (i.e. Just tell your partner that you’re worried!). You deserve better and I sincerely want you and your spouse to reconnect in a loving, lasting way. I do not fall back on this kind of easy, empty advice. I know you need more than that.
Why wait any longer?
Many marriages problems get worse, and ultimately lead to divorce, because people hesitate to get help, are too passive, or don’t know what to do when their spouse won’t participate. This online crash course – our most successful anti-affair and marriage recovery program – is perfect for people who are looking for a more proactive, assertive way to deal with this common yet serious problem before it takes an even greater toll on their marriage.