Overcoming Infidelity // For Spouses who Stray

Whether you succumbed to an affair or a stupid mistake, whether you don’t care about the other person or you have feelings for them, listening to this Marriage SOS™ crash course can help you see the situation clearly. Because you don’t want to have any regrets.
This program can also help you restore calm, support and reconnect with your spouse, and keep your marriage intact, all in a way that can make it stronger.
You've made a mistake - now what?
You’re struggling to cope with the aftermath of your affair—or maybe the affair is still ongoing and you can’t decide what to do. The whole thing is taking its toll on your hurt spouse and on you. It seems like no matter what you say or do, it’s the wrong thing. Well, the essential content in this highly relevant program can help you make things right.
This specialized crash course contains my foremost and most usable guidance—it is packed with the meticulously compiled and streamlined equivalent of months of private consults—all of it delivered in a candid way, so you can decide how to handle things in your situation. You’ll know it’s right for you if you’ve wished for some sensible and forthright direction to manage the challenges you’re facing, including:
- How to restore calm after the storm: your behavior and your spouse's
- Responding to your spouse’s questions or demands: how to handle the tough questions
- Dealing with your spouse’s emotions and assumptions
- Deciding what is “reasonable” in terms of transparency
- Regaining your spouse’s trust; achieving forgiveness
- How to handle your affair partner or intimate opposite-sex "friend"
- Your feelings for the other person vs. your feelings for your spouse
- How to “talk about it” without arguing
- How to support your spouse the right way
- Restoring intimacy and rebuilding a better marriage
Recover and rebuild your marriage so that you can stand strong together
Make no mistake—overcoming infidelity cannot be done in a “hearts and roses” fashion. It is a marriage-altering situation that needs to be handled realistically, with equal parts understanding and action. That is the only way to ensure you truly get past it and do not have to live with the fallout forever. The content in this course can be your map to a better life.

What you need to hear
I’ll tell you what you need to know with candor, and in a way that is respectful and fair to both you and your spouse. That’s what it’ll take to overcome this, to get on with life, and to ensure that affairs or overly close “friendships”—on the part of one or both of you—do not become a pattern in your marriage. I’ll help you manage your spouse, yourself, and the “other person” with clarity. I’ll give you the tools you need to avoid falling into temptation in the future and show you how to rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship. That sounds like a better way to live, doesn’t it?
Move forward without regret
If the affair is still wreaking havoc in your marriage, don’t let the situation continue indefinitely. That’s when people start to feel hopeless and assume that divorce is the only option. And that might lead to regret on both your parts. Instead, commit to handing this crisis in a thoughtful way, starting today. This program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: listen “on the go” on your commute or while you exercise. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you following along in the program supplement. Work through the program and your problem at the same time.
This program is designed for you to take alone, without your partner. Why? Because there are certain insights and strategies that can help you work through things on a personal level, while at the same time equipping you with the information you need to ease your partner’s pain and regain their trust. Much of what you’ll learn in this program can prevent problems from escalating or becoming entrenched. The more your partner can see that you care and are taking the initiative to heal as a couple, the faster you will be able to put this behind you and move forward to rebuild a better marriage.
CRASH COURSE CONTENTS

Listen to the introduction:
- Instant access to over six intensive hours of step-by-step core audio content presented in three key parts
- Core audio (as above) with optional calming video background
- Printable workbooks / program supplements
- Must-watch video shorts and exercises to reconnect with your spouse
- Audio/video Q&A clips: “Hard Questions, Straight Answers – from Deb’s Desk” (Note: new Q&A’s are added regularly, so you can benefit from fresh insight and relationship tips)
- Other helpful content (e.g. marriage “lifelines”)
$300 USD
(Sorry, courses are not currently available in Europe.)