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Overcoming Infidelity // For Spouses who Stray

An Online “Crash Course” Available in the USA & Canada

Overcoming infidelity for spouses who strayWhether you succumbed to an affair or a stupid mistake, whether you don’t care about the other person or you have feelings for them, this online audio/multimedia crash course helps you restore calm, see the situation clearly and keep your marriage together. Start listening now, from any device.

I’ll tell you what to expect from your spouse and how they will likely interpret your behavior, both during and after the affair or indiscretion.

I’ll also explain what behaviors can help you reconnect and rebuild, and what behaviors will stand in the way of that.

Finally, I’ll help you get your own head around what happened (or is happening), so you can make choices that are in your best interests, and in the best interests of the people you love, in the long-term. The decisions you make right now and the way you conduct yourself will have lasting consequences in your life.

This course can change the course of your marriage. After many years as a marriage author and conflict specialist, I am confident in my no-nonsense method.

That’s why you’ll find the program’s audio intro below. You don’t have time for guesswork. You’ll also find testimonials from real course-takers on this page. These are people just like you who reclaimed their marriage and happiness.

Listen to the audio anytime, anywhere. Also includes video, print materials and other supplementary content.

Take your “sessions” with me on the go as you listen in the car from your mobile phone. Or watch the calming video at a coffeehouse or at home as you listen and work your way through the workbook and other supporting material.

There is no faster or more effective way to gain the insights you need to save your marriage – and you won’t have to step into a counselor’s office! I sincerely want you and your spouse to reconnect in a loving, lasting way.

Our marriage had been unhappy for a long time. I wasn’t sure I had the motivation to fix what I’d done. I wondered whether it was worth it. Your crash course made me realize that I wasn’t just fixing things for my husband, but for me, too. I found it struck a balance between making me account for what I’d done but respecting that the marriage had to work for me, too. That’s what kept me motivated to work through it and it paid off. – Joy, Atlanta, Ga.



Contains over 6 hours of intensive audio guidance plus a variety of multimedia supporting content (video, workbook and print materials, Q&A’s, etc.). COST: $275.00 USD  ** Available only in the United States & Canada ** 

This comprehensive yet concise program is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with leading marriage author and conflict specialist Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B. It can be streamed from any device: cell phone, computer, tablet. Many marriages end in divorce because people hesitate to get help; however, with this online course, getting top-tier help has never been more accessible, convenient or affordable. Course enrollment is for a one-year period.

The day after I listened to this program, my wife asked me if I’d had shock therapy. So that says it all. Thanks for having the kahunas to lay it all out for me without making me feel worse than I already did. I needed a shake since I was clueless and panicking and trying to avoid the situation entirely. I listened in my truck and every time you’d say something that made perfect sense, I’d hit the dash. It’s dented now but who cares. Thank you thank you thank you. – Trevor, Calgary, AB

Why choose this crash course?

In this course, I’ll walk you through every step of the process, from discovery to healing. You’ll learn how to handle yourself, but you’ll also learn how to handle your spouse’s emotions, behaviors, assumptions, demands, and so on. You need to know what actions on your part are the most likely, and the least likely, to resolve this infidelity or indiscretion in the lowest-conflict and most positive way. Yes, you can have a very good marriage after infidelity, one that makes both of you happy; however, you need to do the right things, right now.

Make no mistake – overcoming infidelity cannot be done in a “hearts and roses” fashion. It is a marriage-altering situation that needs to be handled realistically, with equal parts insight and action. That is the only way to ensure you truly get past it and do not have to live with the fallout forever.

I’ll tell you what you need to hear with candor. That’s what you need to overcome this, to get on with life and to ensure that affairs or opposite-sex “friendships” – on the part of one or both spouses – do not become a pattern in your marriage. That happens far too often.  I’ll help you manage the “other person,” give you the tools you need to avoid falling into temptation in the future and show you how to rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship. That sounds like a better way to live, doesn’t it?

I’ve walked out of two counselors offices because they were $%#@ing patronizing, religious, clueless, or all three. I know I can be defensive, but I can’t listen to someone who doesn’t know what they’re talking about. I got goosebumps listening to you, itemizing and simplifying exactly what I was doing and feeling. I can’t believe I sat through the whole thing, and then the next day, played it again. It was like you wrote it for me. Sorry for swearing. – Louis, Augusta, Maine

I had very strong feelings for a good friend and was really struggling to end it. Your program helped me see what I was doing in a BIG PICTURE way that made me look at it clearly and rationally and make some decisions about my life. You helped me see it from all angles which I definitely wasn’t doing. I know without a doubt this saved my marriage because my husband was close to leaving me, although I was too caught up in things to see that. So thank you from the bottom of my heart. – Alexis, Austin, Texas

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