Debra Macleod's
Marriage SOS™

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Overcoming Infidelity // For Spouses who Stray

Overcoming Infidelity // For Spouses who Stray

cheating spouse on bed

Whether you succumbed to an affair or a stupid mistake, whether you do or don’t care about the other person, this immersive Marriage SOS™ online program can help you see your situation clearly and decide how to handle it. Because you don’t want to have any regrets.

This important program can also help you restore calm, support and reconnect with your spouse, and keep your marriage intact, all in a way that can make it stronger.

You've made a mistake - now what?

You’re struggling to cope with the aftermath of your affair—or maybe the affair is still ongoing and you can’t decide what to do. The whole thing is taking its toll on your hurt spouse and on you. It seems like no matter what you say or do, it’s the wrong thing. The essential content in this highly relevant and detailed program can help you make things right as quickly and clearly as possible—because every day your marriage spends in conflict, you and your spouse drift a little further apart. Hence my “crash course” approach.


This specialized crash course contains my strongest guidance—it is packed with the carefully compiled and concentrated equivalent of months of private consults—delivered in a convenient format, so you can decide the smartest way to handle things. You’ll know it’s right for you if you’ve wished for some sensible and forthright direction to manage the challenges you’re facing, including: 

Recover and rebuild your marriage so that you can stand strong together

Make no mistake—overcoming infidelity cannot be done in a “hearts and roses” fashion. It is a marriage-altering situation that needs to be handled realistically, with equal parts understanding and action. That is the only way to ensure you truly get past it and do not have to live with the fallout forever. The content in this course can be your map to a better life.

couple walking up mountain together

Don't let it become a pattern

I’ll tell you what you might need to hear in this program, even if it’s not always easy to hear; however, I will always remain respectful and fair to both you and your spouse. The truth is, I don’t just want to help you overcome this marriage crisis. I want to make sure that affairs or overly close “friendships”—on the part of one or both of you—do not become a pattern in your marriage.  To that end, I’ll help you manage your spouse, yourself, and the “other person” with clarity. I’ll give you the tools you need to avoid falling into temptation in the future and show you how to rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship. That sounds like a better way to live, doesn’t it? 

Move forward without regret

If the affair is still wreaking havoc in your marriage, don’t let the situation continue indefinitely. That’s when people start to feel hopeless and assume that divorce is the only option. And that might lead to regret on both your parts. Instead, commit to handing this crisis in a thoughtful way, starting today. This program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: listen “on the go” on your commute or while you exercise. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you listen and follow along in the program supplement.

This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your partner. Why? Because there are certain insights and strategies that can help you work through things on a personal level, while at the same time equipping you with the information you need to ease your partner’s pain and regain their trust. Much of what you’ll learn in this program can prevent problems from escalating or becoming entrenched. The more your spouse can see that you care and are taking the initiative to heal your marriage, the faster you will be able to put this behind you—in fact, that’s why I favor a crash course approach, one that combines conciseness with comprehensiveness. 

Because the sooner you can do things properly, the sooner you can move forward to again make your marriage a place of trust, affection, support, companionship, and love for both of you.


  • Instant access to over six streamlined hours of specialized, step-by-step core audio content presented in three key parts
  • Core audio (as above) with optional calming video background
  • Printable workbooks / program supplements
  • Must-watch video shorts and inventive exercises to reconnect with your spouse
  • Audio/video Q&A clips: “Hard Questions, Straight Answers – from Deb’s Desk” (Note: new Q&A’s are added regularly, so you can benefit from fresh insight and relationship tips)
  • Other purposeful content (e.g. “marriage lifelines” to keep your marriage afloat)

$295 USD

(Sorry, courses are not currently available in Europe.)