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Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

If your spouse has been unfaithful and seems unwilling to prioritize your marriage, stop crying, arguing or pleading. Start listening now to this online “crash course.”

Whether it’s your starting point or your last ditch effort, it provides urgent, usable and at times unconventional advice to pull you off the dead-end path an affair has put you on.

This program is your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage

If your spouse has broken your trust by having an emotional or physical affair – whether with a co-worker, a new friend or an old flame – and especially if they are being uncooperative or ambivalent, my empowering program can help. I’ll show you how to manage this ordeal from start to finish in a sensible, dignified way – yes, on your own. Frankly, that’s where it often has to start. 

It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information; however, this format allows me to do it in hours. These candid, private Marriage SOS streaming sessions share the usable insights and precise strategies that have worked for my other clients – no inconvenient office visits, no empty theories. Just must-know content delivered in a plainspoken way.

Your spouse's behavior, decoded.

This program’s refreshingly candid content helps you understand and manage a spouse’s challenging behavior: denying or downplaying the affair, blame-shifting, defensiveness, refusing to answer questions or make reasonable changes, illicit texting, maintaining contact with the affair partner, etc. It helps you handle things in a way that is reasonable and fair to both of you, so that your marriage can grow into a more mature and committed version of itself.

Even if your partner is cooperative or honest right now, that may not last.

Unfortunately, many unfaithful partners re-connect with their affair partner or re-engage in dishonest behavior. Some are apologetic for a while, but soon lose patience with their spouse’s questions or sadness. You must know how to deal with changing emotions and events as they arise. This course can keep you prepared. It can also teach you how to ensure something like this never sneaks up on you again since, unfortunately, infidelity can become a pattern in a marriage.

The best thing about your course was learning how to make that “shift” from me doing all the work (asking questions, buying marriage books, checking his phone) to him waking up and realizing he had to step up and fight for our marriage. He was the unfaithful one. I shouldn’t have to convince him that his behavior was wrong or beg him to work on our marriage. Like you said, he should be tripping over himself trying to win me back. I tried your strategies and they worked exactly like you said they would. They were crystal clear and direct from the get-go. Thank you for showing me how to make it about “us” instead of just about him, and for still managing to keep things positive and fair to both of us. – Seanna, Jersey City, NJ

overcoming infidelity for betrayed spouses

COST: $200 USD

What’s Included:

  • Over six hours of engaging, comprehensive core audio (or core audio with optional calming video background)
  • Three-part workbook / program supplement
  • What NOT To Do! reminder sheet
  • Q&A audio clips from real clients
  • PDF book: 30 Lifelines to Revive Your Marriage in One Month 

Bonus Program

A Helpful Course Combination…

Don’t let your relationship problems drag on – or drag you down! Right now, when you purchase Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses, you’ll receive Getting Through the Day // Stay Strong, Smart & Focused at no-cost.

This empowering combination of courses has you covered. The Betrayed program delivers relationship-level strategies, while Getting Through helps you get a grip on those self-defeating habits (eg. repeating the same mistakes or reactive behaviors, over-analyzing your partner, etc.) that can undermine your efforts and prevent you from being your best.

I read the hyped-up books by big-name psychologists and dragged him to counseling. Those had ZERO effect. All they did was prolong the miserable status quo of his behavior and me putting up with it, always hoping tomorrow would see a change. They worked AGAINST me. Your course cut through all the BS and double-talk and was truly the voice of clarity and reason. I probably listened to it six times – you really have been my “lifeline.” Me and my marriage are getting stronger every day. You have a hug and a nice cup of tea waiting for you if you’re ever in town. Love ya xo – Constance, Galveston, Texas

Traditional couples counseling has a low success rate. This "one spouse" program is a proven, professional alternative.

This online service effectively replaces thousands of dollars in private sessions with me. The program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: phone, tablet desktop. Take your sessions “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for one year and includes all updates and additions to the program and bonus program during that time (no-cost re-enrollments are available upon request).

This program is designed for you to take alone, without your partner. Why? Because in my professional experience, many people who have had (or are having) an affair tend to be uncooperative or even dishonest. A “couples” approach can be pointless or counterproductive; however, a “one spouse” approach can help a betrayed spouse gain the insights and strategies they need to properly manage the situation. Don’t stay stuck! Move forward, even if you have to take those first steps alone.

As a practitioner, it frustrates me that so many infidelity resources provide vague or piecemeal advice only. That, or they provide advice that works against a betrayed spouses’s interests in the long-term. You deserve more and I provide you with detailed and thorough content. I sincerely want you and your spouse to reconnect in a loving, mature and devoted way.

Why wait any longer?

Many marriages end in divorce because a person who is trying to deal with an unfaithful partner hesitates to get help, is too passive, or doesn’t know what to do when their partner won’t participate. This online crash course – our most successful affair and marriage recovery program – is perfect for people who are looking for a proactive, assertive way to overcome infidelity. It won’t always tell you what you want to hear, but it will always tell you what you need to hear. It will help you strike that balance between respecting your spouse, respecting yourself and restoring your partnership on a happier and more stable foundation.

As if my wife’s affair wasn’t bad enough, she kept flip-flopping between saying she’d end it and saying she wasn’t sure, since our marriage might not survive anyway. So she didn’t want to risk ending the affair. And yet she was willing to risk our marriage? It didn’t make sense until I listened to your program. It was like the clouds parted. Her behavior became obvious to me and I finally knew how to handle myself. Your course wasn’t just informative, it gave me peace. I finally felt like I could get through it regardless of what she did, and once she saw that change in me, she knew she had to make a change. We are doing better now than we have in many years, Deb, and I’ve used every part of this program over the past few months. – Chris, Los Angeles, CA