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Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

If your spouse has been unfaithful and seems unwilling at times to prioritize your marriage, or if the affair isn’t fully over, it’s time to stop crying, arguing or pleading. It’s time to start doing things differently.

Whether it’s your starting point or your last ditch effort, this online “crash course” provides urgent, usable and at times unconventional advice to pull your marriage off the dead-end path an affair has put it on. 

With its high success rate, this course can get your marriage back on course

If your spouse has broken your trust by having an emotional or physical affair, and especially if they are being uncooperative or ambivalent, my empowering program can help. I’ll show you how to manage this crisis from start to finish in a strategic way, one that can influence your spouse’s behavior faster than you might think and save your marriage.

It used to take me months of private sessions to convey this guidance in a holistic and customizable way; however, this format lets me do it in a fraction of that time and associated cost. This online program shares the usable insights and strategies that have worked for my other clients—no ongoing sessions, no filler or empty theories, and no nonsense. Just must-know content—with a 90% success rate—delivered in a candid way.

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Actionable strategies that work

Designed for real-world affair situations, this crash course helps you decode and manage your spouse’s challenging behavior (e.g. an unwillingness to be transparent or talk about it, unfair self-focus, showing feelings for the affair partner, refusing to make reasonable changes, etc.). 

It gives you the strategies you need to handle difficult behaviors with confidence and respect, so your marriage can grow into a more mature and committed version of itself.

Outsmart and overcome whatever comes your way

If your spouse is cooperative and remorseful, that is good. You will find vital direction in this course to lead you through all stages of the infidelity, from discovery to healing.

But unfortunately, many unfaithful partners re-connect with their affair partner or re-engage in dishonest behavior. Some are apologetic for a while, but soon lose patience with their spouse’s questions or sadness. Still others will feign cooperativeness for a while. You must know how to deal with changing emotions and events as they arise so you don’t lose ground.

The benefits of doing this by yourself

Ideally, when an affair is discovered, both spouses will work together—consistently—to move past it. But that doesn’t always happen. And when it doesn’t, a “couples” approach can be very counterproductive. That’s why traditional marriage counseling, with its tendency to prolong and overcomplicate issues, has a low success rate. 

In contrast, the “one spouse” approach and the clear, usable direction in this program can help a betrayed spouse motivate their partner to prioritize the marriage.

Ready to reclaim your marriage?

Then start this crash course today. It can be streamed (repeatedly) on most devices: listen “on the go” on your commute or watch the calming background video at a café while you listen and work through the program supplement. You can also take advantage of the diverse supporting material and new content I add to ensure my premium guidance remains dynamic.

But as the clouds part and you learn how to handle what is happening, remember to initiate changes with quiet confidence rather than saying “I learned this in a course.” It has to come from you, otherwise it means nothing.  

Because I know you love your spouse, and despite what is happening, you want to save your marriage. Your spouse probably wants that too, even if they’re not acting like it right now. All the more reason for them to see you acting with clarity, reasonableness, dignity—and yes, hope—during this challenging but surmountable time in your marriage.


  • Instant access to over six and a half streamlined hours of specialized, step-by-step core audio guidance presented in three key parts
  • Core audio (as above) with optional calming video
  • Printable workbooks / program supplements
  • Must-watch video shorts and inventive exercises to reconnect with your husband or wife
  • Audio/video Q&A clips: “Hard Questions, Straight Answers – from Deb’s Desk” (Note: new Q&A’s are added regularly, so you can keep benefiting from fresh insights and tips to handle the toughest scenarios)
  • Other purposeful content (e.g. “marriage lifelines” to keep your marriage afloat, “What NOT to Do!”)

This course is included with your enrollment in the Marriage SOS™ Online Library

(Sorry, courses are not currently available in Europe.)


Saving your marriage from this affair can happen faster and most fully by also using the below additional courses, both of which are included with your enrollment in the online library.