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Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

An Online “Crash Course” Available in the USA & Canada

Overcoming Infidelity for Betrayed SpousesHas your spouse been unfaithful? Is he/she unwilling to prioritize your marriage? If so, don’t waste time crying, arguing or pleading. Don’t lose weeks surfing the Internet or sitting on a counselor’s couch, hoping for one gem of usable or unique advice. You need a thousand gems before sunrise! So start listening now, from any device, to Debra Macleod’s online audio/video program. It’s your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage.

If your husband or wife has betrayed you, and especially if they are being ambivalent or uncooperative (i.e. denying or downplaying it, blame-shifting, maintaining contact with their affair partner or “friend,” refusing to answer questions or work on the marriage, lying, failing to show remorse or be transparent, etc.), this empowering course can help you turn things around. It shows you how to manage your spouse’s affair (emotional, sexual, co-worker, etc.), illicit texting, commitment issues, untrustworthiness, manipulations and feelings for the other woman or man.

It used to take me months of office sessions to give a betrayed spouse this kind of information. Now I can do that for you in a matter of hours. Why? Because I get to do all the talking! I’ll tell you what has worked for spouses in your situation, and what hasn’t. I’ll help you move through this experience start to finish, in a sensible, dignified and plain-spoken way.

After many years in successful practice as an international marriage author & conflict specialist, I have full confidence in my no-nonsense, innovative method.

That’s why you’ll find the program’s audio introduction below. You don’t have time for guesswork. You need to know what I can do for you. You’ll also find a number of testimonials from real course-takers on this page. (And please, beware of copycat products – always make sure you are enrolling in an authentic Debra Macleod Marriage SOS crash course.)

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Take your “sessions” with me on the go as you listen from your mobile phone. Or watch the calming video at home as you listen and work your way through the printable workbook and other multimedia supporting material.

There is no faster or more effective way to put my eye-opening insights and practical strategies to work for you.  As a practitioner, it frustrates me that so many infidelity resources provide vague or piecemeal advice only. That, or they provide advice that works against a betrayed spouses’s interests in the long-term. You deserve better, and I do my best to provide you with detailed and thorough content. I sincerely want you and your spouse to reconnect in a loving, mature and devoted way.

The best thing about your course was learning how to make that “shift” from me doing all the work (asking questions, buying marriage books, checking his phone) to him waking up and realizing he had to step up and fight for our marriage. He was the unfaithful one. I shouldn’t have to convince him that his behavior was wrong or beg him to work on our marriage. Like you said, he should be tripping over himself trying to win me back. I tried your strategies and they worked exactly like you said they would. They were crystal clear and direct from the get-go. Thank you for showing me how to make it about “us” instead of just about him, and for still managing to keep things positive and fair to both of us. – Seanna, Jersey City, NJ



Contains over 6 hours of audio guidance plus a variety of multimedia supporting content (video, workbook and print materials, Q&A’s, etc.). COST: $275.00 USD ** Available in the USA & Canada **

This comprehensive, urgent-help program is valued at several thousand dollars in private sessions. It can be streamed from any device: cell phone, computer, tablet. Many marriages end in divorce because people hesitate to get help; however, with this online program, getting top-tier help has never been faster, more affordable or more convenient.

An invaluable course with broad scope and real-world guidance. I did every page of the workbook, although it didn’t feel like work. It felt like a weight being lifted off of me as I felt myself taking my power back. All the pieces fell into place. I learned how to trust myself – it WAS an affair, not an innocent friendship – and I learned what to do about it, other than arguing and crying. I can’t imagine finding a more forthright or useful course to help a person get through something like this and come out with a stronger marriage. You have a personal yet sometimes forceful tone, and I needed that. Loved the Questions & Answers you included from clients, too. All those little ‘extras’ (the lifelines, self-assessment, What NOT to Do!!! etc.) were so helpful. – Anika, Sacramento, CA

As if my wife’s affair wasn’t bad enough, she kept flip-flopping between saying she’d end it and saying she wasn’t sure, since our marriage might not survive anyway.  So she didn’t want to risk ending the affair. And yet she was willing to risk our marriage? It made no sense – until I listened to your program. It was like the clouds parted. Her behavior became so obvious to me and I finally knew how to handle myself with confidence. Your course wasn’t just informative, it was inspiring to me personally. I finally felt like I could get through it and once she saw that change in me, she knew her gig was up. We are doing better now than we have in many years, Deb, and I’ve used every part of this program over the past few months. – Chris, Los Angeles, CA

I read the hyped-up books by big-name psychologists, dragged him to counseling and tried a different person’s method before yours. They had ZERO effect. All they did was prolong the miserable status quo of his behavior and me putting up with it, always hoping tomorrow would see a change. They worked AGAINST me. They were just too weak, too watered down. Your course cut through all the bullshit and was truly the voice of clarity and reason. I probably listened to it six times – you really have been my “lifeline.” Everything you said was so spot-on that I just kept shaking my head, thinking “Why didn’t I find this first?” If I had, the last few months would have played out a lot differently, I’ll tell you that. I will never go back to the way it was. And now that I know what’s really happening and what to do about it, I don’t have to. Me and my marriage are getting stronger every day. You have a hug and a nice cup of tea waiting for you if you’re ever in town. Love ya xo – Constance, Galveston, Texas

Why choose this crash course?

Infidelity is complex, unpredictable and often recurs in marriage, whether in the same or a different form. The broad knowledge and targeted strategies you’ll learn in this course can lead you through the specific circumstances of your current crisis; however, they can also teach you how to ensure it, or something similar, never sneaks up on you again. That is especially so if your partner is being uncooperative. They need to recommit to the marriage so that you can tackle your problems as a team.

Yes, it’s possible to recover from this and rebuild your marriage on a stronger, happier foundation. Yes, it’s possible to have a loving, devoted marriage that insulates you from pain instead of inflicting pain. This online multimedia course can help. From stabilizing the situation to healing as a couple, it is a thorough and realistic resource that walks you through this crisis.

Even if your partner is cooperative right now (i.e. ending the affair, cutting contact with the other person, being honest and transparent, etc.) that may not last. Many unfaithful partners re-connect with their affair partner or re-engage in dishonest behavior. Many are apologetic for a while, but soon lose patience with their spouse’s questions or sadness and become defiant. You must know how to deal with changing emotions and events as they arise, how to forgive and heal, and – ultimately – how to rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship.  That’s the knowledge this course can give you.

I stumbled upon your program less than 48 hours after I found out about my husband’s year-long affair. He was stubborn and refused to end it. I was almost in hysterics, thinking I wasn’t young enough, slim enough, pretty enough. Your voice calmed me down and got me thinking straight. I had my doubts that a program like this would work, but I read your background and decided my marriage was worth the risk. I listened to your advice and did what I thought was best. He ended the affair at that point. Your course helped me see there were many reasons the affair happened, and my husband and I are now working together for a better tomorrow. I often re-listen to you to regain focus when I need to and still rely on the material. Thank you for saving my marriage. – Iris, Charlotte, North Carolina

I learned more in an evening of listening to this than I did in weeks of useless couples counseling. You checked off every box.  Even now I’ll re-listen to certain parts if I feel us slipping and then we’re good again. I’ve also recommended it to a couple friends who are dealing with their own nightmares. Thank you, Debra. – Allen, Vancouver, BC

For me, it wasn’t really a course…it was more like a road map that kept me “on course” through the whole thing. It gave me that big picture idea of how to get through my husband’s infidelity – what was reasonable to expect or ask for, how to deal with the “Other Woman,” how to react to his impatience, how to come together again and actually start to pick up the pieces despite all the pain and flashbacks. You covered it all and I’ve relied on this course very heavily through it all. – Hannah, Tampa, Florida

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