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Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

A Marriage-Saving Crash Course

This powerhouse of an audio course delivers life-changing insight and vital strategies to conquer infidelity, recover and rebuild a better marriage.

This relentlessly honest and instructive audio program shows you how to overcome your partner’s emotional or sexual affair, deceptive online activity or secretive behavior. It also assertively tackles inappropriate opposite-sex friendships.

The knowledge, skills and strategies you need to overcome all of these scenarios are remarkably similar and versatile, and this comprehensive, commanding course teaches them in detail. If your partner has betrayed you, and especially if they are still being uncooperative (i.e. denying or downplaying it, blame-shifting, maintaining contact with their affair partner or “friend,” refusing to answer questions, show remorse or be transparent, etc.), this course can educate you and empower you to turn things around.

Yes, you can recover from this and rebuild your marriage on an even stronger, happier foundation. Yes, you can have a loving, devoted marriage that insulates you from pain instead of inflicting pain. That process starts with this one-of-a-kind course.

The best thing about your course was learning how to motivate my husband to fight for our marriage. He was the unfaithful one – so why should everything revolve around what he’s willing to do or not do? Like you said, it has to be the other way around! He should be tripping over himself trying to win me back. I shouldn’t have to convince him that his behavior was wrong or beg him to work on our marriage. I tried your strategies and they worked exactly like you said they would. They were crystal clear and direct from the get-go, and your course was the ONLY place I learned anything truly NEW. Thank you for showing me how to make it about “us” instead of just about him, and for still managing to keep things positive and fair to both of us. – Seanna, Jersey City, NJ

Why choose this crash course?

Infidelity is complex, unpredictable and often recurs in marriage, whether in the same or a different form. The broad knowledge and targeted strategies you’ll learn in this course will lead you through the specific circumstances of your current crisis; however, they’ll also teach you how to ensure it, or something similar, never sneaks up on you again. That is especially so if your partner is being uncooperative. They need to recommit to the marriage so that you can tackle your problems as a team.

Even if your partner is cooperative right now (i.e. ending the affair, cutting contact with the other person, being honest and transparent, etc.) that may not last. Many unfaithful partners re-connect with their affair partner or re-engage in dishonest behavior. Many are apologetic for a while, but soon lose patience with their spouse’s questions or sadness and become defiant. You must know how to deal with changing emotions and events as they arise, how to forgive and heal, and – ultimately – how to rebuild your marriage on the foundation of a romantic friendship.  That’s the knowledge this course can give you, start to finish.

When I found out about the affair, I Googled for help. It was obvious the market is flooded with books and programs, but all of them seem to borrow from each other (unfortunately I wasted some time and money before I tried you). You have a very authoritative voice and approach, and you were critical in helping me know what was going on in my wife’s head and heart…which was tough to hear at times, but necessary for the greater good. I appreciated the course’s strong and specific instruction. My thanks. – Jeff, London, England

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Cost: $180.00 (USD)

Available worldwide. This user-friendly audio course is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with Debra Macleod, a leading marriage expert. Listen at your convenience and pace on any device – mobile, tablet, computer, etc. Soon, you’ll have the powerful insights and proactive strategies you need to save your marriage. This premium online course also contains a program supplement (workbook, review tool) and bonus exercises.

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An invaluable course that gets right to the point. It had broad scope, a huge instructional component, incredible detail and application, and a personal, sometimes forceful tone that kept me going. I learned how to trust myself – it WAS an affair, not an innocent friendship – and I learned what to do about it (other than arguing and crying!). I can’t imagine finding a more forthright or useful course to help a person get through something like this and come out with a stronger marriage. – Anika, Sacramento, CA

To me, the course was like being sprung from jail. You broke me out of my victim role. – Adrian, NYC

How is this course unique?

This course is unique in its blend of essential knowledge and proactive application. That is, I give you a thorough understanding of your problem while simultaneously helping you apply that knowledge – all those insights, ideas, skills and strategies – to your specific situation. This is the process I follow during phone or office sessions; however, this crash course works faster because its comprehensive yet concise content is delivered uninterrupted and at your convenience. That’s why it’s so effective.

You’ll find that I don’t sidestep the “tough issues” in this course. I tackle issues head-on and I provide practical suggestions and guidelines. Unfortunately, most counselors and relationship coaches speak in generalities and do not provide specific suggestions. Most are not trained to work with couples and are therefore unable to predict and impartially balance the needs, perspectives or interests of two emotional people. My background as a couples mediator allows me to perform this essential balancing act.

Finally, you’ll find that I don’t just tell you what you want to hear in this course – I tell you what you need to hear.  Too many practitioners and programs take the path of least resistance by dishing out “comforting” but ultimately counterproductive advice.  It might make you feel good for a while (i.e. focus on forgiveness, learn to trust, have date nights, etc.) but it doesn’t actually help you manage an uncooperative spouse’s behavior. So if you’re looking for real help, not just warm fuzzies, this is the course for you.

My wife has been doing this our whole marriage…constant flirting and ‘friendships’ with other men, always dismissing my concerns as controlling or paranoid. After almost ten years of it, I was sick of it and done. I listened to your crash course for betrayed spouses and saw how I was enabling it. I instituted your strategies and was willing to walk away if she didn’t change. She surprised me with her openness to listen to the program for unfaithful spouses and surprised me even more by changing. Maybe it was as much of a wake-up call to her as it was for me. Maybe she realized I saw through it all now. I guess it doesn’t matter. All that matters is that we’re doing very well and I’m not going to live like that anymore.” – Glenn, Los Angeles, CA

All I can say is…holy **** did this open my eyes to what was happening, and FAST. I’ve taken back control of my life and marriage and I’ve never felt so confident in either. I thought this course might be vague, but the detail was unbelievable. You checked off every box and then some. I can honestly say we’d be divorced if I hadn’t listened to it. It pulled the curtain back on everything – why it happened, her behavior, what to do, how to recover, all of it. Even now I’ll re-listen to certain parts if I feel us slipping and then we’re good again. I’ve also recommended it to a couple friends who are dealing with their own nightmares. Thank you, Debra.  – Allen, Vancouver, BC

I listened to the whole thing in my car on an overnight road trip. Not only did it keep me awake, but it served me better than three months of counselling with two different counselors. Absolutely life-changing stuff, Deb. You hit every nail on the head. After a year-long sexual affair and being a regular on dating sites, he’s a changed man and treats me like solid gold now. – Hannah, Melbourne, AU

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