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Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

If your spouse has been unfaithful and seems unwilling to prioritize your marriage, don’t waste time crying, arguing or pleading. Start listening now, from any device, to this online audio + multimedia “crash course.” It’s your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage.

Yes, you can turn things around - but you will have to take the initiative and respond properly

If your spouse has broken your trust by having or continuing an emotional or sexual affair – whether with a co-worker, a new friend or an old flame – and especially if they are being uncooperative or ambivalent, my empowering program can help. I’ll show you how to successfully manage this ordeal, from start to finish, in a sensible, dignified and plain-spoken way – yes, on your own. How you respond to this marriage crisis matters – so do yourself a favor and start doing the right things, right now.

It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information; however, this format allows me to do it in hours. Listen from your mobile or tablet, listen in the car or at your desktop. Whatever you choose, these no-nonsense, private Marriage SOS sessions deliver the usable insights and precise strategies that have worked for my other clients – no inconvenient office visits, no empty theories. Just must-know content. Scroll down to hear the audio introduction, read reviews and purchase the course.

I read the hyped-up books by big-name psychologists and dragged him to counseling. Those had ZERO effect. All they did was prolong the miserable status quo of his behavior and me putting up with it, always hoping tomorrow would see a change. They worked AGAINST me. Your course cut through all the BS and double-talk and was truly the voice of clarity and reason. I probably listened to it six times – you really have been my “lifeline.” Me and my marriage are getting stronger every day. You have a hug and a nice cup of tea waiting for you if you’re ever in town. Love ya xo – Constance, Galveston, Texas

Clear, confident strategies for people who are serious about prompting a change in their marriage

This indispensable program helps you manage your partner’s affair, whether it’s over or ongoing, so that you can reclaim and rebuild your marriage. Its comprehensive content includes how to deal with a spouse’s challenging behavior: denying or downplaying it, blame-shifting, defensiveness, refusing to answer your questions or make reasonable changes, illicit texting, maintaining content with the affair partner and so on. It helps you decide how you will handle things in a way that is reasonable and fair to both of you.

Even if your partner is cooperative or honest right now, that may not last.

Unfortunately, many unfaithful partners re-connect with their affair partner or re-engage in dishonest behavior. Some are apologetic for a while, but soon lose patience with their spouse’s questions or sadness. You must know how to deal with changing emotions and events as they arise. This course can keep you prepared.

Plus, infidelity is complex, unpredictable and often recurs in marriage, whether in the same or a different form. This program can lead you through the specific circumstances of your current crisis; however, it can also teach you how to ensure something like this never sneaks up on you again. 

Includes six-plus hours of focused, practical and engaging audio sessions from international marriage expert Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B., with multimedia supporting content: video, workbook and print materials, Q&A’s, etc.  $239.00 USD  (Available for purchase only in the USA, Canada and Australia.)

This online-only program is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with leading marriage author and conflict specialist Debra Macleod. It can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: mobile phone, tablet, computer. Take your sessions with Debra “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for a one-year period and includes all updates and additions to the program during that time.

Why this program works so well...

This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your partner. Why? Because in my professional experience, many people who have had (or are having) an affair tend to be uncooperative or even dishonest. A “couples” approach can be pointless or counterproductive; however, a “one spouse” approach can help a betrayed spouse gain the insights and strategies they need to properly manage the situation. Don’t stay stuck! Move forward, even if you have to take those first steps alone.

As a practitioner, it frustrates me that so many infidelity resources provide vague or piecemeal advice only. That, or they provide advice that works against a betrayed spouses’s interests in the long-term. You deserve more and I do my best to provide you with detailed and thorough content. I sincerely want you and your spouse to reconnect in a loving, mature and devoted way.

As if my wife’s affair wasn’t bad enough, she kept flip-flopping between saying she’d end it and saying she wasn’t sure, since our marriage might not survive anyway. So she didn’t want to risk ending the affair. And yet she was willing to risk our marriage? It didn’t make sense until I listened to your program. It was like the clouds parted. Her behavior became obvious to me and I finally knew how to handle myself. Your course wasn’t just informative, it gave me peace. I finally felt like I could get through it regardless of what she did, and once she saw that change in me, she knew she had to make a change. We are doing better now than we have in many years, Deb, and I’ve used every part of this program over the past few months. – Chris, Los Angeles, CA

Every day this comes between you, your marriage gets weaker

Many marriages end in divorce because people – particularly spouses who are dealing with an unfaithful partner – hesitate to get help, are too passive, or don’t know what to do when their partner won’t participate. This online course is perfect for people who are looking for a more proactive, assertive way to overcome infidelity. No, I won’t always tell you what you want to hear – but I will always tell you what you need to hear. I will help you strike that balance between respecting your spouse, respecting yourself and restoring your partnership on a stronger, happier and more stable foundation.

This online program is only available for purchase in the United States, Canada & Australia.

The best thing about your course was learning how to make that “shift” from me doing all the work (asking questions, buying marriage books, checking his phone) to him waking up and realizing he had to step up and fight for our marriage. He was the unfaithful one. I shouldn’t have to convince him that his behavior was wrong or beg him to work on our marriage. Like you said, he should be tripping over himself trying to win me back. I tried your strategies and they worked exactly like you said they would. They were crystal clear and direct from the get-go. Thank you for showing me how to make it about “us” instead of just about him, and for still managing to keep things positive and fair to both of us. – Seanna, Jersey City, NJ