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New You, Renewed Marriage // Improving Interactions & Intimacy

Do you feel like your spouse is falling out of love with you, or vice versa?  Has your marriage lost its warmth, good humor and spirit of loving devotion? Are the negative interactions or apathy in your marriage chipping away at it? 

If so, this online “crash course” audio program provides intelligent and creative instruction to help you dramatically improve the dynamics and desire in your marriage. 

Don't panic! Help is here

There is a certain panic that comes with feeling like your spouse doesn’t love you as much anymore, or that you don’t love them as much anymore, or that one or both of you may be thinking about leaving the marriage. Perhaps one or both of you are bored, or frustrated with how chilly, negative, or just downright dull things have become. Perhaps outside influences (e.g. the in-laws, money, kids, lifestyle, etc.) are taking their toll.

Regardless, this program can help. Whether you’re taking it alone, or you ultimately decide to take it as a couple, it can help you improve the negative relationship interactions and poor personality traits that are keeping both of you from enjoying the full potential of your emotional and physical intimacy. This streaming online course also offers effective, creative ways to revive the desire and affection your spouse has for you – so they see you again!

You will not find a better, more thorough or more unique marriage course in communication, conflict resolution and intimacy-building. You’ll know it’s right for you if any of the following seem familiar:

  • Unflattering personality traits (one or both of you!)
  • Defensiveness or refusal to look at own behavior
  • An inability to communicate without arguing
  • Negativity or constant criticism
  • A self-focused spouse
  • Emotional outbursts or oversensitivity
  • Feeling misunderstood or unappreciated
  • Trapped in the roommate rut
  • Fears the marriage bond is weakening
  • Worried your spouse no longer desires you
  • Lack of affection or sex
  • A boring marriage where you're drifting apart
loving couple

Adding warmth to a chilly marriage

Renewing your marriage isn’t just about enhancing feelings of love, passion and desire – although that’s a big part of it! It’s also about improving the way you treat and talk to each other. If you sense that your behavior could use some improvement or that your patience for your spouse is wearing thin, or if you feel that your spouse doesn’t treat you with the kindness and respect that you deserve, this program can help you turn things around.

Who should take this program?

In all honesty, most married people would benefit from this program’s comprehensive content. All relationships have their rough spots and this course can help you smooth those down. But since people don’t tend to make a purchase like this until things are nearing a breaking point, there are two categories of people who could benefit most directly from this course.

First, those who worry their spouse has grown apathetic about them: this loss of passion may be accompanied by a range of poor behaviors on the part of one or both spouses, from defensiveness and criticism to self-focus and blame-shifting. The second category of people who could benefit most directly are those whose spouses are about to leave them, largely because they are tired of being treated poorly in the marriage, or enduring the negative personality traits or behavior of their partner. 

In both cases, the goal is the same. To do a deep-dive into the dynamics (e.g. communication, ways of resolving conflict, personality traits, etc.) that are causing problems, and to dramatically improve those interactions as quickly as possible. After that, the focus is on enhancing the intimacy – the passion, friendship and love – in the marriage.

I’ve read every marriage communication book in the English language. I’ve bought more “spice it up” books than any woman should own. And nothing has come close to this outstanding program. THANK YOU Debra and Don. This course brought me closer to my husband than I ever imagined was possible. After ten years of marriage, we are finally in love and we act like it. – Magie, Harrison, AR

Two for One

Unlike my other programs, New You, Renewed Marriage // Improving Interactions & Intimacy was created and is hosted by myself and my husband Don. I’ve never written a word in any of my programs, I’ve never spoken to a client, without having his voice in my head, encouraging me to remember that more male side of things…and this is the perfect program for you to hear from both of us!

I never fell out of love with my wife. I was just more bored and for whatever reason that manifested as resentment. Belittling. She did the same to me, and to say things had cooled off in the bedroom is an understatement. I listened first, then she did. Hearing different speakers, the female and male, made the content feel even more relevant and interesting. A great program. – F.L.K., Riverside, CA

COST: $275 USD 

What’s Included:

*Note: Sorry, Debra’s programs and services are not available in Europe/UK.

If my husband wasn’t ignoring or criticizing me, he was acting like a total jerk. I hadn’t felt actual love from him in years, never mind something as impossible as RESPECT. A month after this wonderful program, and we’re better than ever. He looks at me in a totally different way and it makes me feel so good about myself. – Jean, NYC

Don't wait for things to get even worse

If you’re feeling unloved, undesired, or treated poorly (or if you know you’re not being your best, either!), the worst thing you can do is nothing! Eventually, you and/or your spouse may begin to feel hopeless about your marriage – and when people feel hopeless about their marriage, they begin to think that divorce is their only option for happiness. Don’t wait for things to get to that point! This program’s comprehensive and powerfully useful content can help you make things better, instead of worse. 

New You, Renewed Marriage // Improving Interactions & Intimacy effectively replaces thousands of dollars in private sessions with me. The program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: phone, tablet desktop. Take your sessions “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for one year and includes all updates and additions to the program during that time (no-cost re-enrollments are available upon request).

I had no idea why I was so angry all the time, but my wake-up call came when my wife asked for a divorce. Had I not binged this program over the weekend and made some drastic changes, she would’ve been gone on Monday. It prevented me from losing my wife and making the worst mistake of my life. I needed to hear every word of this. I can’t believe how clueless I was. – Al, Vancouver, BC