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Getting Through The Day // Stay Strong, Smart & Focused

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Stop letting your fears, emotional outbursts or obsessive, over-analyzing thoughts get the better of you! Stop letting them prevent you from doing what you know must be done to save your marriage.

Start listening now to this Marriage SOS crash course for more peace, better control and greater perspective – not just of your marriage, but of your life, too.

Are you your own worst enemy? 

You know what you should be doing (or not doing!) to move past your marriage problems – that’s because you’re taking one of my other courses and you’ve decided how you are going to handle yourself and your spouse. You know how you’re going to respond to the upsetting things your spouse says or does. And yet you can’t seem to do it! You keep giving in and making the same mistakes over and over again. You wish you had the strength and focus to stick to your plan.

It used to take me months of office sessions to give a spouse in your situation the kind of information that can help them break these self-defeating habits; however, this format allows me to do it in hours. This ancillary crash course shares the unique, uber-practical strategies and tips that have worked for my other clients – no inconvenient office visits, no empty theories. Just helpful content delivered in a candid way. It may be right for you if any of the below behaviors sound familiar:  

Overcoming Marriage Problems Happens on Two Levels

The first is the relationship level. It’s the insights you have into your problems, the interactions between you and your spouse, and the strategies you use to resolve conflict. What are you going to say and do to make things better? How are you going to deal with your spouse’s manipulative behavior? These are the things my other courses cover.

This program focuses on the second level – the personal level. It’s about you, as an individual, working to get your own emotions, thoughts and actions under control, so that you can continue to do the things that you know are in the best interests of your life and your marriage in the long-term. And while this program can stand alone, it is best used to support course-takers as they work through one of my larger programs, such as Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses or Conquer His Midlife // Strategies for Wives. (Note: this program, like all of my programs, is not therapy or counseling, nor is it a substitute for those: if you require mental health support, contact an appropriate practitioner.)

Yes, you CAN do this

And when you realize that about yourself, you will love it. You will love the effect it has on you and how you feel about yourself. You’ll feel more empowered, more dignified, more clear-headed and you’ll have more perspective when it comes to your marriage problems. You’ll love ending each day knowing that you did everything “right” on your end. No more kicking yourself and wishing you could have a do-over. You can do better than that and you know it.


As usual, Deb, you’re my go-to gal when I need somebody to get me through it all. Your Betrayed Spouses course laid it all out – how to get through her affair – but this course was all about me and I needed that so desperately.  – Arron, Lead, SD

From today on...

It doesn’t matter how you handled things yesterday. From today on, both you and your spouse are going to see a stronger and more focused version of you! Because as important as it is for you to feel more confident and clear in terms of what you need to do, it’s equally important for your partner to see that change in you. This crash course, which is designed for you to take alone, can go a long way toward doing that and toward rebuilding your partnership on a more loving, respectful foundation. It can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices for the duration of your year enrollment, with free no-hassle re-enrollments for as long as you need. Listen “on the go” on your commute or while you exercise. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you follow along in the program supplement. Make the most of your time by working through the program and your problems at the same time.


This wasn’t a course. It was a life-saving spiritual experience for me. I’m not kidding. I have listened to parts of this course every single day since the day I first heard it. It is the only thing that’s given me shelter from the chaos of my husband’s midlife crisis and given me the strength to do what I needed to do. Thank you my dear friend. – Diya, Vancouver, BC

Please Note: For a limited time, Getting Through the Day // Stay Strong, Smart & Focused is included as a no-cost bonus when you purchase Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses

Getting Through the Day // Stay Strong, Smart & Focused includes:

Listen to the introduction:

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(Sorry, courses are not currently available in Europe.)


Oh Deb, you put those life gurus to shame. They’ve got nothing on you. Your guidance was powerful and effective, but still unpretentious.  – Vera, NYC