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Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies for Wives

Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies for Wives

husband having midlife crisis

If you’re losing your husband to his midlife crisis—including one that involves or may come to involve a midlife crisis affair—it’s time to stop analyzing, questioning or tiptoeing around him. It’s time to immerse yourself in this Marriage SOS™ online program instead.

This empowering resource provides crucial—and at times unconventional—strategies to win him back without losing yourself, and to end this midlife marriage crisis.

This program is your secret advantage in the fight for your marriage—because you have more power than you think you do

Life used to be fairly calm; however, since the storm clouds of your husband’s midlife crisis-related behavior have rolled in, you feel lost, unloved, confused, powerless, and deeply worried about your future together. Your marriage is almost unrecognizable, and you have no idea when or whether this storm will pass.

This specialized, detailed, and candid program can help you reconnect with your husband and reclaim your marriage as quickly and clearly as possible—because the longer his midlife crisis keeps your marriage in crisis, the further apart you and he will drift. Hence my “crash course” approach.


Conquer His Midlife Crisis contains my strongest guidance—it is packed with the carefully compiled and concentrated equivalent of months of private consults—delivered in a convenient format, so you can decide the smartest way to handle things. Because even though it might not feel like it right now, you can end this crisis and give your marriage a new start. And you won’t find a more determined program to get you there.

Your husband's behavior, decoded

As if midlife doesn’t come with enough challenges, now this? Now you have to spend your time figuring out why your husband is unhappy, why he’s saying or doing the uncharacteristic things he is, and what you can do about it. Or maybe things aren’t that bad yet, but you feel it coming. 

I’ll help you decode and manage his most hurtful and difficult behaviors, from rewriting your history and acting confused to blaming his unhappiness on you and saying he wants a divorce, and everything in between.

From apathy and ambivalence to self-focus and infidelity, be prepared

A lot can happen during a husband’s midlife crisis. Your husband may still be living at home or maybe he’s moved out… or just starting to talk about doing so. He may say “I don’t love you anymore” or he may say “I don’t know how I feel.” He may be mean-spirited or apologetic. He may be a fitness nut or a couch potato. He may have lost interest in sex or he may have started a close friendship with another woman, perhaps even a midlife affair.

And whatever he is doing today, he might be doing something different tomorrow. 

That’s why this program’s content is versatile enough to apply to almost any situation. It‘s also thorough enough to apply to any stage, whether his midlife crisis is just starting or it’s fully underway

So whether you are still connected to your husband or whether he has become focused on himself (or someone else) instead of you, don’t panic! Just be prepared

And if you’re already facing these latter challenges, it isn’t too late! Just start doing things differently from now on. 

Change starts now

Too many women mistakenly think (or blindly hope) that time will make these storm clouds pass; however, every day that your husband’s midlife crisis comes between you, the more entrenched it gets. Things won’t change on their own.

Make a change by starting this course today. It can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: listen “on the go” on your commute or while you exercise. Or watch the calming background video at home or at a coffeehouse while you listen and work through the program supplement.

You can also take advantage of the diverse supporting material and new content I add to the course, something I do to ensure the usable guidance in this top-tier program remains as engaging as it is effective.

Manage your marriage like a pro—now and always

My crash course approach combines conciseness with comprehensiveness. You’ll get detailed expert guidance plus “insider tips” for that extra advantage. That’s because I want to make you the expert in your own marriage.

That way, you’re equipped to resolve this crisis and avoid future ones. That’s important, since this type of midlife behavior can recur if not handled properly. And both you and your husband need to see that you are handling this with clarity and purpose.

Which leads me to my last point. In light of a husband’s midlife crisis behavior, many women choose not to tell their husband they are taking this course. They worry that if they said, “I learned this in a course,” their husband might become defensive and try to deflate their efforts. You may similarly wish to simply initiate changes on your own, with quiet confidence. It has to come from you. Otherwise, it means nothing. That’s how this program is your secret advantage in the fight for your marriage. 

Because you and your husband deserve to recapture the happiness, security, and successful partnership of your marriage.


  • Instant access to over six and a half streamlined hours of specialized, step-by-step core audio guidance presented in three key parts
  • Core audio (as above) with optional calming video background
  • Printable workbooks / program supplements
  • Must-watch video shorts and inventive exercises to reconnect with your husband
  • Audio/video Q&A clips: “Hard Questions, Straight Answers – from Deb’s Desk” (Note: new Q&A’s are added regularly, so you can keep benefiting from fresh insights and tips to handle the toughest scenarios)
  • Other purposeful content (e.g. “marriage lifelines” to keep your marriage afloat, “What NOT to Do!”)

SPECIAL: Reclaim your husband’s love and renew your marriage. Right now, when you enroll in Conquer His Midlife Crisis, you’ll receive New You, Renewed Marriage // Improving Interactions & Intimacy ($295 USD value) at no cost.

This powerful combination of courses has you covered.

The primary midlife crisis program helps you overcome the immediate crisis of your husband’s midlife behavior, while the bonus course empowers you to complete your marriage’s transformation by fixing any other broken parts (e.g. loss of passion or interest, arguing, difficult personality traits, etc.) so you can enjoy a better marriage moving forward. 

$295 USD

(Sorry, courses are not currently available in Europe.)