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Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies for Wives

Stop crying. Stop questioning, analyzing or tiptoeing around him. If you’re losing your husband to a midlife crisis, start listening now to this online “crash course.”

Whether it’s your starting point or your last ditch effort, it provides urgent, usable and unconventional advice to pull you off the dead-end path his crisis has put you on.

This course is your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage - because you have more power than you think you do

Men who show midlife crisis behavior act in shockingly similar ways, from self-indulgent and confused to mean-spirited and unfaithful. My empowering program can help you move through this ordeal, start to finish, in a dignified and plain-spoken way. If you’re finally realizing that your husband isn’t going to “come around” on his own, this course can show you how to handle him and yourself in those ways – those sensible yet sometimes unexpected ways – that can prompt a change and rekindle his affection for and commitment to you. He does not have all the power. You do have a say in all of this.

It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information to a wife in your situation; however, this format allows me to do it in hours. These candid, private Marriage SOS streaming sessions deliver the usable insights and precise strategies that have worked for my other clients – no inconvenient office visits, no empty theories. Just must-know content.

Your husband's behavior, decoded.

This empowering program can help you regain your husband’s affection and respect. Its comprehensive content includes how to understand and manage his challenging behavior: rewriting your history, saying he’s “confused” about his feelings or not “in love” with you, sending mixed messages, acting self-indulgent or narcissistic, being secretive, engaging in activities that exclude you, having a “mean streak,” striking up a friendship with another woman or having an affair, etc.

From the first word to the last, I felt like you literally reached into the chaos of my marriage, sat me down at your table and said, “Now listen up, sweetheart, this is what you’re going to do.” I listened to the whole program twice over the span of one weekend, and then went back and completed the workbook, which to be honest was a very personal and emotional experience for me. So basically within two or three days I was a changed woman! And yes, that has made a massive change – for the better – in the way my husband treats me and the choices he is making. I truly thank you. – Cara, Troy, Alabama

What is included?

Within minutes, you’ll be listening to over six nonstop hours of my best insights, strategies, and “do’s and don’ts.” This is information that a woman in your situation simply must know – information that comprehensively addresses this issue. You’ll also have access to multimedia supporting content (audio with calming video, Marriage Lifelines, What NOT To Do, Q&A clips, etc.). *COST: $275.00 USD

*As an experienced marriage expert who specializes in this issue, my office/phone sessions are billed out at $275/hour and often booked a month+ in advance; however, most clients now prefer to “binge listen” (and re-listen) to the information they need, whenever and wherever they need it, via my Marriage SOS online programs.

I saw a counselor, spent hours researching midlife crises online and tried a couple other approaches which basically resulted in him sleeping with her and me at the same time, while I felt like a doormat. I knew it wasn’t working but I didn’t know what else to do. I enrolled in your course and literally felt the anxiety and confusion and fear leave my body with every passing word that you said. You empowered and protected me. You gave me my clear-thinking and self-respect back. And it was like you scripted the whole thing – he came back, just like you said. And he came back on my terms, not just his. – Veronica, NYC

The “particulars” don’t matter...

It doesn’t matter if your husband is still living at home or has moved out. He may be close to having an affair or he may already be having one. He may say “it’s over” and he wants a divorce, or he may say he’s not sure. He may be cruel or kind. Apathetic or apologetic. He may be a fitness nut or a couch potato. This program’s content is as versatile as it is relevant.

Stop living in a state of anxiety, hurt and speculation, spending each waking moment trying to get him to commit to you again. It isn’t working. It won’t work. You need to take back your power so that you can reconnect with him in a way that works for both of you. After taking this course, you’ll realize that you have more control over what happens than you may think.

Your husband needs to see you at your best right now...strong, smart and worth fighting for.

This online service effectively replaces thousands of dollars in private sessions with me. The program can be streamed (repeatedly) from most devices: phone, tablet desktop. Take your sessions “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for one year and includes all updates and additions to the program and bonus program during that time (no-cost re-enrollments are available upon request).

This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your husband. Why? Because in my professional experience, many husbands who are displaying behaviors we associate with a so-called midlife crisis can be uncooperative and self-focused. A “couples” approach can be pointless or counterproductive; however, a “one spouse” approach can help a wife be proactive and handle herself, her husband and the situation properly. Your husband will notice how you respond to this – it matters.

As a practitioner (and wife!), it frustrates me that so many women are getting useless, patronizing, and counterproductive advice during this crisis period in their marriage. You deserve better and I truly want you and your husband to reconnect in a lasting way. No, I won’t always tell you what you want to hear – but I will always tell you what you need to hear. I will help you strike that balance between respecting your husband and respecting yourself, while at same time re-awakening his interest in you.

Don't put yourself through another day of this.

No more endlessly analyzing your husband or guessing what to do. No more feeling powerless or afraid. This assertive, trusted crash course – our most successful midlife crisis and marriage recovery program – empowers you to handle him, yourself, and the situation with clarity and purpose. That’s what it will take to reclaim a marriage that insulates you from pain instead of inflicting pain. And it’s information you can’t go another day without knowing.

Deb, you’re the snake-charmer of midlife men. You knew every move my husband was making and you showed me how to manage him so he couldn’t do any more damage to me or to our marriage. How do I thank the person who showed me how to make my husband fall in love with me all over again? Listening to the course was such a pleasant experience, too. It was in-depth and indispensable: you have a very take-charge, deliberate approach. For me, it was exactly what I needed to stop my emotional flailing and to assertively and strategically “conquer” his behavior. – Toni, Gainsville, Florida