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Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies for Wives

Stop panicking. Stop crying. Stop questioning, analyzing or tiptoeing around him. If you’re losing your husband to a midlife crisis, start listening now, from any device, to this online audio/multimedia “crash course.” It’s your secret weapon in the fight for your marriage.

Yes, you can turn things around - you just need to know what I know

Men who show midlife crisis behavior act in shockingly similar ways, from self-indulgent and confused to mean-spirited and unfaithful. My empowering program can help you successfully navigate it all. I’ll help you move through this ordeal, from start to finish, in a dignified and plain-spoken way. How you respond to this marriage crisis matters – so do yourself a favor and start doing the right things, right now.

It used to take me months of office sessions to provide this information; however, this format allows me to do it in a matter of hours. Listen from your mobile or tablet, listen in the car or at your desktop. Whatever you choose, these private “power sessions” can help you achieve real results. I will give you an uninterrupted stream of usable insights and precise strategies that have worked for my other clients – no small talk, just must-know content. So don’t just “hope for the best.” Instead, use this course’s sensible yet unconventional direction to regain his love and devotion. 

You’ll know my approach is right for you if any of the below behaviors on your husband’s part have you nodding your head in frustration (or if you’re worried such behaviors are coming):

  • Re-writing your history in a negative way
  • Saying "I love you, but I'm not in love with you"
  • Blaming you or the marriage for his unhappiness
  • Self-focus and self-indulgence
  • Acting uncertain about his commitment to you
  • Sending mixed messages
  • Having a “mean streak”
  • Saying he’s “confused” about his feelings
  • Adopting new lifestyle habits (i.e. fitness)
  • Acting egocentric and narcissistic
  • Striking up “friendships” with (younger) women
  • Wanting to move out / abandon responsibilities
  • Having an emotional or physical affair
  • Being more secretive with his phone

A no-nonsense approach to helping marriages survive and thrive

Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B., is an international marriage author and conflict specialist. Her extensive experience, proven approach and discriminating clientele make her the only choice when it comes to top-tier relationship help. After years of running a successful office practice, she streamlined her innovative method into issue-specific course format and expanded her practice online. It is now the premier destination for online marriage-saving “crash courses.” You can listen to the audio introduction of this program below, and read testimonials from people – just like you – who found the help they needed.

Clear, confident strategies for women who are serious about prompting a change in their marriage

This one-of-a-kind program helps you understand and navigate your husband’s midlife crisis from start to finish. It helps you protect yourself while at the same time prompting him to again feel love, desire and respect for you and only you. You CAN recover from this and rebuild your marriage on a stronger, happier foundation for both of you.

The “particulars” don’t matter

It doesn’t matter if your husband is still living at home or has moved out. He may be close to having an affair or he may already be having one. He may say “it’s over” and he wants a divorce, or he may say he’s not sure. He may be cruel or kind. Apathetic or apologetic. He may be a fitness nut or a couch potato. This program’s content is as versatile as it is relevant.

Stop living in a state of anxiety, hurt and speculation, spending each waking moment trying to get him to commit to you again. It isn’t working. It won’t work. You need to take back your power so that you can reconnect with him in a way that works for both of you. After taking this course, you’ll realize that you have more control over what happens than you may think.

Contains over 6 hours of intensive audio guidance plus a variety of multimedia supporting content: video, workbook and print materials, Q&A’s, etc.  COST: $195.00 USD.  (Available for purchase only in the United States, Canada and Australia.)

This online-only program is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with leading marriage author and conflict specialist Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B. It can be streamed from most devices: mobile phone, tablet, computer. Take your sessions with Debra “on the go” as you listen on your commute. Or watch the calming background video at a coffeehouse or at home while you work through the program supplement and other supporting material. Course enrollment is for a one-year period and includes all updates and additions to the program during that time.

What to do when his midlife crisis becomes a marriage crisis

This crash course is designed for you to take alone, without your husband. Why? Because in my professional experience, many husbands who are displaying behaviors we associate with a so-called midlife crisis can be uncooperative and self-focused. A “couples” approach can be pointless or counterproductive; however, a “one spouse” approach can help a wife be proactive and handle herself, her husband and the situation properly. Your husband will notice how you respond to this – it matters.

As a practitioner (and wife!), it frustrates me that so many women are getting useless, patronizing, and counterproductive advice during this crisis period in their marriage. You deserve better and I truly want you and your husband to reconnect in a lasting way. No, I won’t always tell you what you want to hear – but I will always tell you what you need to hear. I will help you strike that balance between respecting your husband and respecting yourself, while at same time re-awakening his interest in you.

Don't put yourself through another day of this...

No more endlessly analyzing your husband or guessing what to do. No more feeling powerless or afraid. This assertive, trusted course decodes his words and behavior, and teaches you how to handle him, yourself, and the situation with clarity and purpose. That’s what it will take to reclaim a marriage that insulates you from pain instead of inflicting pain. And it’s information you can’t go another day without knowing.

This online program is only available for purchase in the United States, Canada & Australia.

From the first word to the last, I felt like you literally reached into the chaos of my marriage, sat me down at your table and said, “Now listen up, sweetheart, this is what you’re going to do.” I listened to the whole program twice over the span of one weekend, and then went back and completed the workbook, which to be honest was a very personal and emotional experience for me. So basically within two or three days I was a changed woman! And yes, that has made a massive change – for the better – in the way my husband treats me and the choices he is making. I truly thank you. – Cara, Troy, Alabama

I saw a counselor, spent hours researching midlife crises online and tried a couple other approaches which basically resulted in him sleeping with her and me at the same time, while I felt like a doormat. I knew it wasn’t working but I didn’t know what else to do. I enrolled in your course and literally felt the anxiety and confusion and fear leave my body with every passing word that you said. You empowered and protected me. You gave me my clear-thinking and self-respect back. And it was like you scripted the whole thing – he came back, just like you said. And he came back on my terms, not just his. – Veronica, NYC

Deb, you’re the snake-charmer of midlife men. You knew every move my husband was making and you showed me how to manage him so he couldn’t do any more damage to me or to our marriage. How do I thank the person who showed me how to make my husband fall in love with me all over again? Listening to the course was such a pleasant experience, too. It was in-depth and indispensable: you have a very take-charge, deliberate approach. For me, it was exactly what I needed to stop my emotional flailing and to assertively and strategically “conquer” his behavior. – Toni, Gainsville, Florida