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Conquer His Midlife Crisis // Strategies For Wives

A Marriage-Saving Crash Course

Stop panicking. Stop crying. Stop asking him questions. Start listening to this game-changing audio course and learn the right way to make him recommit to you.

A husband’s destructive midlife crisis is one of the greatest threats to a woman’s emotional and financial well-being in mid to later life. That’s why you need to handle it, and yourself, with clarity, purpose and skill.

You may be shocked by your husband’s profound self-focus and self-indulgence. You may be baffled by his new interests or sudden obsession with fitness, or fearful of his new “friendships” (that means affairs!) with younger women. You may be hearing things like, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you,” or “I don’t know what I want.” You may be hurt by his words and behavior as they become increasingly confusing, cold or even cruel.

He may be re-writing your history, only remembering the bad times and blaming you for his unhappiness or unfulfilled dreams. Or he may be saying how wonderful you are and how he “doesn’t mean to hurt you” (even though that’s exactly what he’s doing!). He may be withdrawing, sending mixed messages, talking about getting his “own place” and living as though the world revolves around him. He may be retreating into introspection or self-pity. He may be moody, impulsive, egocentric, untrustworthy or unfaithful.

Deb, you’re the snake-charmer of midlife men. You knew every move my husband was making and you showed me how to manage him so he couldn’t do any more damage to our marriage. How do I thank the person who showed me how to make my husband fall in love with me all over again? Listening to the course was such a pleasant experience, too. I listened during my morning run, as I ran errands in the car and even as I cleaned the house. Aren’t we women amazing multitaskers? 🙂 The instructional aspect of the course was in-depth and indispensable: you have a very take-charge, deliberate approach. For me, it was exactly what I needed to stop my emotional flailing and to assertively and stratetically “conquer” his behavior. – Toni, Acton, England

When His Crisis Becomes a Marriage Crisis

As a result, your world is sent into a tailspin. Your every thought, feeling and move revolves around what he might be thinking, feeling or doing. You live in a chronic state of uncertainty and hurt. You live in his wake – tiptoeing around his emotions, demands or sensitivities. You trudge through each day, trying to get through the worst time of your life. Yet it sometimes seems like your husband is having the time of his life, despite the drama and turmoil. It’s all about him and his search for fulfillment or happiness.

This groundbreaking crash course can help regardless of your specific circumstances. Your husband may still be living in the home or he may have moved out. He may be on the brink of having an affair or he may be having one. He may say the marriage is over or he may be unsure. He may be cruel or kind. Apathetic or apologetic. He may be obsessed with fitness or an outside interest, or he may be a couch potato. And so on. This course covers a lot of ground. It also prepares you for the various stages his crisis and self-focus can take. At the same time, this course is also effective preventative medicine. If you can catch his midlife crisis in the early stages and apply this course’s strategies in your marriage, you can help prevent the situation from escalating.

From the first word to the last, I felt like you literally reached into the chaos of my marriage, sat me down at your table and said, “Now listen up, sweetheart, this is what you’re going to do.”  I did it.  It worked.  I truly thank you. – Cara, Atlanta, GA

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Cost: $180.00 (USD)

Available worldwide. This user-friendly audio course is worth thousands of dollars in private sessions with Debra Macleod, a leading marriage expert. Listen at your convenience and pace on any device – mobile, tablet, computer, etc. Soon, you’ll have the powerful insights and proactive strategies you need to save your marriage. This premium online course also contains a program supplement (workbook, review tool) and bonus exercises.

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You are the voice that every wife who is going through this gut-churning, head-spinning, soul-sucking ordeal needs to hear in her ear.  There were times in this program that I wanted to get on a plane, show up at your office and wrap my arms around you.  Your insight and instructions were my lifeline.  They pulled me out of the desperation and despair, and back to a place of confidence and certainty. I have him back and I didn’t have to sacrifice my dignity to do it. – Becka, Houston, TX

Why Is This Course So Effective?

Most resources take a passive approach and pander to the husband’s needs during a midlife crisis. This is because most counselors and coaches are not trained to work with couples and are unable to predict and balance the interests of two emotional people. As a result, the squeaky wheel gets the grease. And since the husband is doing the squeaking, it’s all about him; however, this only ensures that his self-indulgence will continue to escalate. It only ensures that the marriage will continue to deteriorate.

My background as a couples mediator allows me to balance the needs of both spouses while strengthening the overall partnership. I can show you how to do the same thing – manage yourself, manage your husband and strengthen your marriage in the process. Ultimately, your goal isn’t to just survive your husband’s destructive midlife crisis. Your goal is to conquer it and to rebuild your marriage on the lasting foundation of romantic partnership.

This crash course should be required listening at every married woman’s 40th birthday party. It is a rite of passage into middle age.  Had I listened to this BEFORE it all blew up, I could have avoided months of emotional anguish and uncertainty. – Denise, Seattle, WA

How Is This Course Unique?

This course is unique in its blend of essential knowledge and proactive application. That is, I give you a thorough understanding of your situation while simultaneously helping you apply that knowledge – all those insights, ideas, skills and strategies – to your specific circumstances. This is the process I follow during phone or office sessions; however, this crash course works faster because its comprehensive yet concise content is delivered uninterrupted and at your convenience. That’s why it’s so effective.

This course also stands apart because it utilizes my unique marriage-saving method, one I spent years crafting in private practice. I don’t dish out fluffy advice. I don’t recycle stale theories by slapping a new label on them. I don’t speak in generalities to avoid offering specific suggestions or guidelines. I don’t sidestep the tough issues. I don’t pretend to have hidden secrets to save your marriage. I don’t ask you to subscribe to my website for weekly newsletters. I don’t need these kinds of gimmicks. I’m trained, experienced and the professional method that I have pioneered works very well. So let’s make it work for you.

I was doing every thing wrong. I was so consumed with the panic and desperation and fear and humiliation. I probably would’ve let those drive me into an early grave if I hadn’t found this course. Maybe I knew, deep down, that so much of what he was doing was manipulation but I was too afraid to do anything about it. That fear only doubled when he moved in with “her.” Thank you for taking me by the hand and walking me into the clear light of what was happening. Thank you for giving me my power back. Thank you for saving my marriage and my dignity. I feel authentic love from him and for the first time in years we are excited about continuing the journey of our life together. – Tama, Perth, AUS

Click to read “The 5 Acts of a Male Midlife Crisis”