When an Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to End Their Affair

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When most people imagine a scenario involving a “cheating spouse” being caught having an emotional or sexual affair, they assume said cheating spouse will react apologetically.  “I’m so sorry!  It meant nothing, you’re the one I love and want to be with! I’ll do whatever it takes to fix this!” There is also an assumption that … Read more

Did Your Marriage Fall Prey to a Spouse Poacher?

cheating woman

When dealing with infidelity, it’s useful to know who initiated the extramarital relationship.  Was it the unfaithful spouse or the other woman/other man?  Here, I want to talk about the latter case: where the other woman/other man pursued the married person. It’s a sobering thought, but the unhappy fact is that an otherwise loving and … Read more

Micro-Cheating, Entanglements, and Infidelity

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The first time I heard the word entanglement being tossed around the internet, I was encouraged – I thought the buzz was drawing attention to seal entanglements, an ocean life crisis where seals (and many other species that swim the oceans) suffer horrible entanglements in fishing line and trash. I soon learned the context, though—entanglement … Read more