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My Husband / Wife is Threatening Divorce. Why? What Should I Do?

Thinking of Divorce?

If you’ve ever heard your husband or wife say, “I want a divorce,” or “we should just get a divorce” or even “maybe we should try a separation,” then you know how...Read More

Marriage Counseling for Affairs: Making a Bad Situation Even Worse

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It happens every day: a spouse discovers their husband or wife is having an affair and starts Googling marriage counselors. They assume that if they can get (or persuade, or...Read More

My Husband “Can’t Decide” Between Me and His Mistress

I hear this kind of thing all the time: “We’ve been married for fifteen years, but I recently discovered my husband is having an affair with our daughter’s swim coach. He...Read More

10 Signs Your Husband is Having a Midlife Crisis

Have you ever thought to yourself, “Is my husband having a midlife crisis?”  Maybe his behavior has changed so suddenly, so dramatically, that you’re wondering whether...Read More

10 Things Your Cheating Spouse Doesn’t Want You to Know

10 Things Your Cheating Spouse Doesn't Want You To Know | debramacleod.com

Finding out that your husband or wife has been unfaithful isn’t just a time of profound heartbreak and shock, it’s also a time of intense confusion.  There are so many...Read More

10 Signs Your Wife is Having a Midlife Crisis

Have you ever thought to yourself, “I wonder if my wife is having some kind of midlife crisis?”  Maybe her behavior has suddenly changed and she’s acting in...Read More

Should I Contact My Spouse’s Affair Partner?

Should I Contact My Spouse’s Affair Partner? | Debra Macleod

It’s something I hear all the time from my clients: “My spouse is having (or had) an affair.  Should I contact the Other Man / Other Woman?”  My short answer is this:...Read More

Are Marriage-Saving Online Programs the Future of Marriage Help?

Online Marriage Help

You’ve heard it before – the future is now.  There is no doubt that people are increasingly turning away from traditional brick-and-mortar and in-person services, and instead...Read More

No, They’re Not “Just Friends.” They’re Having an Affair.

No, They're Not "Just Friends." They're Having an Affair | debramacleod.com

So, I’m just wondering… whatever happened to trusting one’s own gut? Is it unfashionable to do so? Politically incorrect? Fattening? There must be a reason that...Read More

Is A “Partner Predator” Circling Your Spouse?

You’re having a nice coffee date with your wife when her phone chimes with a new text.  She reads it, giggles, and starts texting this other person back.  You know who it...Read More