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Should I End My Marriage or End My Affair?

An unfaithful spouse is an easy target to demonize. That’s why so many spouses who have strayed from their marriage find it a challenge to track down non-moralizing help when...Read More

“Why Can’t I Communicate With My Husband / Wife?” What To Do When Your Marriage is Falling Apart

Reasons he may be falling out of love with you | Debra Macleod

Defensive husbands. Emotional wives. Marriages full of heated arguments, cold shoulders, adult temper tantrums, childish meltdowns, constant criticism and stupid misunderstandings...Read More

Covid-19 and Affairs: Will a Vaccine Lead to an Uptick in Infidelity?

“Covid-19 is the best thing that’s ever happened to my marriage. My husband can’t see his girlfriend, because he’s scared of getting sick.” You might be surprised how...Read More

Can You Save Your Marriage Alone? Yes – Try These 5 Tips

Can one spouse save a marriage?  The short answer is yes.  It can happen.  It happens all the time. In fact, the reason that I take a “one spouse” approach in my practice...Read More

Beyond the Affair – “Can I Ever Trust Him Again?”

These Are the Signs Your Spouse is Having a Texting Affair | Debra Macleod

It’s a question every betrayed spouse will ask at some point – “Can I ever trust him (or her) again?”  It’s a reasonable and yet unanswerable question.  The truth is,...Read More

Is Marriage a Status Symbol? – A Man’s Perspective

By Special Contributor Don Macleod. We’ve all seen a movie about high-powered corporate type who joins a big company and meets the boss at a corporate function. To impress the...Read More

My Husband / Wife is Threatening Divorce. Why? What Should I Do?

Thinking of Divorce?

If you’ve ever heard your husband or wife say, “I want a divorce,” or “we should just get a divorce” or even “maybe we should try a separation,” then you know how...Read More

Marriage Counseling for Affairs: Making a Bad Situation Even Worse

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It happens every day: a spouse discovers their husband or wife is having an affair and starts Googling marriage counselors. They assume that if they can get (or persuade, or...Read More

My Husband “Can’t Decide” Between Me and His Mistress

I hear this kind of thing all the time: “We’ve been married for fifteen years, but I recently discovered my husband is having an affair with our daughter’s swim coach. He...Read More

10 Things Your Cheating Spouse Doesn’t Want You to Know

10 Things Your Cheating Spouse Doesn't Want You To Know | debramacleod.com

Finding out that your husband or wife has been unfaithful isn’t just a time of profound heartbreak and shock, it’s also a time of intense confusion.  There are so many...Read More