An unfaithful spouse is an easy target to demonize. That’s why so many spouses who have strayed from their marriage find it a challenge to track down non-moralizing help when...Read More
“Why Can’t I Communicate With My Husband / Wife?” What To Do When Your Marriage is Falling Apart
Defensive husbands. Emotional wives. Marriages full of heated arguments, cold shoulders, adult temper tantrums, childish meltdowns, constant criticism and stupid misunderstandings...Read More
Covid-19 and Affairs: Will a Vaccine Lead to an Uptick in Infidelity?
“Covid-19 is the best thing that’s ever happened to my marriage. My husband can’t see his girlfriend, because he’s scared of getting sick.” You might be surprised how...Read More
Can You Save Your Marriage Alone? Yes – Try These 5 Tips
Can one spouse save a marriage? The short answer is yes. It can happen. It happens all the time. In fact, the reason that I take a “one spouse” approach in my practice...Read More
Beyond the Affair – “Can I Ever Trust Him Again?”
It’s a question every betrayed spouse will ask at some point – “Can I ever trust him (or her) again?” It’s a reasonable and yet unanswerable question. The truth is,...Read More
Is Marriage a Status Symbol? – A Man’s Perspective
By Special Contributor Don Macleod. We’ve all seen a movie about high-powered corporate type who joins a big company and meets the boss at a corporate function. To impress the...Read More
My Husband / Wife is Threatening Divorce. Why? What Should I Do?
If you’ve ever heard your husband or wife say, “I want a divorce,” or “we should just get a divorce” or even “maybe we should try a separation,” then you know how...Read More
Marriage Counseling for Affairs: Making a Bad Situation Even Worse
It happens every day: a spouse discovers their husband or wife is having an affair and starts Googling marriage counselors. They assume that if they can get (or persuade, or...Read More
My Husband “Can’t Decide” Between Me and His Mistress
I hear this kind of thing all the time: “We’ve been married for fifteen years, but I recently discovered my husband is having an affair with our daughter’s swim coach. He...Read More
10 Things Your Cheating Spouse Doesn’t Want You to Know
Finding out that your husband or wife has been unfaithful isn’t just a time of profound heartbreak and shock, it’s also a time of intense confusion. There are so many...Read More
