When most people imagine a scenario involving a “cheating spouse” being caught having an emotional or sexual affair, they assume said cheating spouse will react...Read More
“My Husband is Infatuated with Another Woman.”
I recently had a client say this to me: “My husband is infatuated with our daughter’s dance instructor. He talks about her all the time and wonders aloud how she’s doing,...Read More
When His Midlife Crisis turns into Marital Terrorism
Ah, the stereotypical male midlife crisis – it summons images of a middle-aged man cruising around town in his red convertible, trying to recapture the feeling of lost youth. ...Read More
Covid-19 and Affairs: Will a Vaccine Lead to an Uptick in Infidelity?
“Covid-19 is the best thing that’s ever happened to my marriage. My husband can’t see his girlfriend, because he’s scared of getting sick.” You might be surprised how...Read More
“My Husband / Wife Won’t Fight for Me. How Can I Make Them Care?”
I hear it all the time from a hurting spouse: “My husband was the one who cheated, so why isn’t he fighting for me? Why do I have to convince him that what he did was...Read More
Did Your Marriage Fall Prey to a Spouse Poacher?
When dealing with infidelity, it’s useful to know who initiated the extramarital relationship. Was it the unfaithful spouse or the other woman/other man? Here, I want to...Read More
Affair Recovery – “What If My Unfaithful Spouse Shows No Remorse?”
If you’re facing a spouse’s affair or indiscretion, you may be just as shocked by your husband or wife’s apparent lack of remorse over the whole thing as you are...Read More
When An Unfaithful Husband Says He “Loves” His Affair Partner
As if discovering your husband has had or is having an affair isn’t bad enough, it often happens – very often happens – that an unfaithful husband will say that he...Read More
“My Husband Won’t Stop Texting a Female Co-Worker”
You’ve been looking forward to it all week – crashing on the couch with your husband and binge-watching the new show on Netflix. You set out a big bowl of popcorn, snuggle...Read More
Should I End My Marriage or End My Affair?
An unfaithful spouse is an easy target to demonize. That’s why so many spouses who have strayed from their marriage find it a challenge to track down non-moralizing help when...Read More
