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When an Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to End Their Affair

When most people imagine a scenario involving a “cheating spouse” being caught having an emotional or sexual affair, they assume said cheating spouse will react...Read More

“My Husband is Infatuated with Another Woman.”

Reasons he may be falling out of love with you | Debra Macleod

I recently had a client say this to me: “My husband is infatuated with our daughter’s dance instructor. He talks about her all the time and wonders aloud how she’s doing,...Read More

When His Midlife Crisis turns into Marital Terrorism

When His Midlife Crisis turns into Marital Terrorism | debramacleod.com

Ah, the stereotypical male midlife crisis – it summons images of a middle-aged man cruising around town in his red convertible, trying to recapture the feeling of lost youth. ...Read More

19 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Healthy During the Covid-19 Crisis

There is an old saying: “Home is where you act the worst, but are treated the best.” Well, if you’re acting your worst at home right now – and if you’re isolating or...Read More

“My Husband / Wife Won’t Fight for Me. How Can I Make Them Care?”

I hear it all the time from a hurting spouse:  “My husband was the one who cheated, so why isn’t he fighting for me?  Why do I have to convince him that what he did was...Read More

Did Your Marriage Fall Prey to a Spouse Poacher?

Did Your Marriage Fall Prey to a Spouse Poacher? | Debra Macleod

When dealing with infidelity, it’s useful to know who initiated the extramarital relationship.  Was it the unfaithful spouse or the other woman/other man?  Here, I want to...Read More

Affair Recovery – “What If My Unfaithful Spouse Shows No Remorse?”

Stop talking your relationship to death!

If you’re facing a spouse’s affair or indiscretion, you may be just as shocked by your husband or wife’s apparent lack of remorse over the whole thing as you are...Read More

When An Unfaithful Husband Says He “Loves” His Affair Partner

Reasons he may be falling out of love with you | Debra Macleod

As if discovering your husband has had or is having an affair isn’t bad enough, it often happens – very often happens – that an unfaithful husband will say that he...Read More

“My Husband Won’t Stop Texting a Female Co-Worker”

You’ve been looking forward to it all week – crashing on the couch with your husband and binge-watching the new show on Netflix.  You set out a big bowl of popcorn, snuggle...Read More

Can You Save Your Marriage Alone? Yes – Try These 5 Tips

Stop talking your relationship to death!

Can one spouse save a marriage?  The short answer is yes.  It can happen.  It happens all the time. In fact, the reason that I take a “one spouse” approach in my practice...Read More