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About Debra

Debra Macleod, BA, JD, is an international marriage expert, marital mediator and coach, founder of Marriage SOS™, and a resource for major media worldwide. 

Her no-nonsense style, innovative method, “Fair, but Aware” approach, and over two decades of experience have helped countless people resolve their marriage crisis, reconnect as spouses, and rebuild their marriage on the foundation of a romantic partnership. 

Debra specializes in cases where one spouse is currently more motivated to save or work on the marriage.

HOW SHE STARTED DOING WHAT SHE DOES:  After law school, Debra opened a divorce mediation practice, a role that gave her an up-close view of marriages torn apart by infidelity and other issues. Seeing how many of her clients had refused couples counseling and/or other forms of marriage help, or tried them but said they either didn’t work or had made things worse, Debra saw a need to present struggling spouses with a professional and low-conflict alternative. 

She therefore shifted the focus of her practice to marital mediation to help couples stay together and avoid divorce, opening her Marriage SOS™ mediation / coaching practice and pioneering an effective new method of relationship help, one that merged her formal education and in-the-trenches experience with her assertive marriage-saving strategies. 

Eventually, Debra’s practice segued into one which primarily helped individual spouses manage an uncooperative or ambivalent partner—or a partner with a different agenda (e.g. an ongoing affair)—recognizing that the motivated spouse required unique guidance to bring a spirit of cooperation, commitment, and collaboration back into their marriage.

HER METHOD:  Debra’s method combines her “hard” training in law and marital mediation with her “softer” experience as a marriage / intimacy author and relationship coach. It offers a thoughtful and pragmatic way to resolve marital conflict, and incorporates her detailed marriage-saving strategies, many of which emerged from her practice of reverse engineering failed relationships to create successful ones. Importantly, Debra’s method strives to deliver relationship guidance quickly and clearly, cognizant of the urgency involved. For a more in-depth explanation, and to ensure it’s right for you, click here

Debra’s method encapsulates her trademark “Fair, but Aware” approach. This encourages spouses to be fair in terms of advocating for and respecting each other’s needs, feelings, and perspectives, but also encourages them to be aware of how both people in the marriage are contributing to the conflict: this includes being able to identify and smartly manage an unfaithful, indifferent, self-focused, or otherwise uncooperative partner’s behavior. 

CREDENTIALS:  Debra holds a Bachelor of Arts (with Distinction) and a Juris Doctor. She has ADR certificates in interpersonal conflict resolution and couples and family mediation.

MEDIA:  Debra has served as an expert resource for major media in North America and around the world. Her past television appearances include FOX TV, CBC, GLOBAL TV, CTV, and regular relationship segments on SHAW TV and CITY TV. Her radio appearances include multiple guest spots on XM/SIRIUS Satellite Radio, regular relationship segments on Virgin Radio and Corus Radio, and guest spots on numerous local, national and syndicated radio programs.

Debra has been seen in popular international women’s and men’s magazines, including ELLE, COSMOPOLITAN, REDBOOK, BRIDAL GUIDE, SHAPE, ESQUIRE, MEN’S HEALTH MAGAZINE, WOMEN’S HEALTH MAGAZINE, WOMAN’S ERA (India), TODAY’S PARENT, READER’S DIGEST and ENTREPRENEUR. She has also contributed to various health and industry magazines, from APPLE to THE OGM (Oil & Gas).  Her pieces in THE HUFF POST have appeared in multiple editions including the USA, Canada, Arabi, Korea and Brazil.

In addition, she has been interviewed by the Associated Press, Canadian Press, THE NEW YORK TIMES and Fox News, and her work has received coverage in such newspapers as USA TODAY, THE LOS ANGELES TIMES, THE WASHINGTON POST, THE DAILY MAIL, THE DAILY TELEGRAPH, THE TORONTO STAR, THE INTERNATIONAL HERALD TRIBUNE, THE NATIONAL POST, SUN and other local, national and international newspapers.

Debra has also been seen in such popular web destinations as,,,,, (Australia), USA TODAY’s “Happily Ever After” book reviews blog,, and others. Her articles have been syndicated to multiple websites and web portals.

AND PERSONALLY:  Debra has been married to her husband Don since 2001 and often collaborates with him to provide relationship help. They have one (adult) child.